Here’s a thought to help a relationship succeed. Allow yourself and your partner to change. That’s it…pure and simple. It used to be a compliment to hear “I love you just the way you are. Don’t ever change.” Maybe it made you feel safe and loved. But, seriously, did you expect to never learn and grow from your experiences?
Sometimes we lock our friends and lovers into a rigid space. Have you ever said something to your partner about how you feel and as a result been bound to that for years? Does he/she assign qualities to you that once applied but no longer do? Are you constantly reminded about your behavior or tendencies that you don’t feel anymore?
It’s time to stop! We evolve, we learn, we explore new ways to be and to do. Let’s give each other the freedom to change.
Yes! Love this!
I love who you’ve become! I look forward to the newer version too!