A Miracle in the Silver Lining

Sunday was my daughter’s wedding. It was less than a week ago and the memories are still fresh in my mind.

The bride was radiant and stunning, the sky sparkling, the venue welcoming with flowers bursting everywhere, and the guests ready to embrace new friends and celebrate this union of two lovers committed to their new lives together. People came from all over the country, even a couple from Europe, bringing together cousins who haven’t seen each other in twenty years.

There were miracles everywhere, but none was as precious as seeing my almost 90-year-old mother leave her cane by her chair and enter the dance floor to dance with her children, grandchildren and husband. With a huge smile on her face, her joy was palpable and those around her felt her profound happiness and love of family. Rather than teaching  about courage, involvement and joy, she showed it through her actions leaving limitations on the sidelines.

We set up the backdrop, but our family and friends’ excitement, engagement and appreciation made this a spectacular experience. During the party, I stood back and took it all in…the energy and laughter under the Santa Fe sky, taking a minute to walk away from conversation and make a visual impression on my brain.  Being present in the moment helped me to savor the magnificence of it all.

11 Responses to “A Miracle in the Silver Lining”

  1. Donna

    So glad it was all that and more for all of you. Wishing you all mazel tov I know how special it was having your mom and the family there to share this special time wit you. All of you looked beautiful and so happy. I loved seeing the pictures of everyone. Please send my love to everyone. I think if you often. ????

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  2. Joella

    I love the message, family, love and being together is all that matters in our everyday busy life. Stop and appreciate…love you beautiful friend. Your children are blessed to have such an amazing mom.????

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  3. Annina Luck Wildermuth

    Beautiful!!! Three generations of beautiful women! All the best!

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  4. Barbara

    Heather looked so radiant and beautiful. Many blessings to them both as they journey together in life.
    I love that you took the time to stand back and create that Kodak Moment forever in your mind and heart. Having filled yourself up with precious memories and love, I’m interested in how this love taken in will flow out through your art. Keep me posted! 🙂

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  5. Susan Trichon

    Knowing your mother I am not surprised by her actions for they speak louder than words. Congratulations on your daughter’s marriage….heard everything was just beautiful!

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  6. mom

    I haven’t stop crying yet.
    It was more than I ever expected. I knew the job you would do because I really know you. I am so proud of you; The weather was perfect; the guests thrilled to be there and the result is a fabulous couple launched into the world who can ADD something to all of us. I play the pictures over and over again. Please be well and we’ll dance again even if it is only on your portal. I love you –mom

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